Millennials lament the decline of weekly social get-togethers their parents had: 'They didn't have social media or cell phones'

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    Brandon Nadeau @BN Writes Follow My parents' generation had regular get-togethers—cards every Wednesday night with the Millers, that kind of thing. I have great friends, but I can't get them to commit to something like that. Every get-together is a one-off. I think that's a shame. How about you?
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    WAGON Scott Van Tuyl @Ned Ryerson1957 • 1d Replying to @BN_Writes My dad had a first Friday of the month rotating poker game. The same six guys. It lasted for over 30 years.
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    • Jenny Tripp @RealJenny Tripp 1d Replying to @BN_Writes It's rougher as you get older because you and your best friends don't always live near each other.
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    Casual Observer @msjuris70.2d Replying to @BN_Writes In my twenties, I had friends over 2-3 times a week for dinner, games, just to chill. Now, it's just an occasional thing. I do miss those times.
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    Julie Ann @roze_anna_ •2d Replying to @BN_Writes We're all too busy working to death →
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    C.J. Holliday @c_j_holliday - 2d Replying to @BN_Writes The same here. My grandparents were always having us up for dinner through the week or on Sundays. My parents only have get togethers on holidays and bdays. I want to change that but I don't know if I want do because it would involve inviting my mother.
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    Indiana CPA @Indianataxpros. 1d Replying to @BN_Writes 8 Someone in my neighborhood started a Majong group every other week. I didn't know how to play but I joined in January and it's been fun. You can do it - just have to take some initiative!
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    Melissa Amaya ❤ @Melissa Amaya32 Replying to @BN_Writes Follow Same. Every Friday night us kids would have an early bedtime while my folks and their friends socialized over drinks and card game. Today, everyone seems unable to commit. Honestly, I'm not sure I'm much better.
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    J.M. Gulmire @JMGulmire • 2d Replying to @BN_Writes I wish I knew how to play bridge lol ...
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    Susan Rupe⭑@INNsusan. 1d Replying to @BN_Writes Everyone I know either has a long commute home from work or is spending all their nonworking hours shuttling their kids to activities. No time for socializing.
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    RickyG @Gividen Ric78614.2d Replying to @BN_Writes Well, the difference as I see it is they didn't have social media or cell phones. Their social interaction was face to face, FaceBook and other platforms have replaced the face to face time.
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    Granddad05 @granddad05 · 2d Replying to @BN_Writes My wife and I have been in a new neighborhood for 8 years. We like to have dinner parties. Those who attend never reciprocate. Not a big deal as that's the way it is but we do find it strange.
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    Marielle Redclaw → @MarieleRedclaw Replying to @BN_Writes Follow I thought it would be harder with kids, but we have get togethers with friends and their kids at the park or someplace like that. Good for socializing the kids when they're young. Lots of BBQs when the weather is good.
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    mamu @maryleestinson1 · 2d Replying to @BN_Writes Life has gotten too busy. Too many things going on to divert us including children's sports. I can't imagine my daughter and son in law being able to have a routine of getting together monthly with friends. They see them a lot but w kiddos, sports and job, not as a routine
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    carly (in the library) @fatbaby609. 1d i 100% believe that consistent hangs that you don't have to schedule every time are the secret to real peer community
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    Jamie @JayElHarris ⚫ 1d • I have some monthly stuff that's fairly consistent but it's the phones. Even in my 20s I had a regular standing date to watch The Walking Dead with a friend on Sundays and I don't have that relationship with anyone now.
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    devincf@devincf. 1d I do a regular Sunday morning walk with a friend and it's honestly a highlight of the whole week.
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    I saw Elon Musk eat a h... @DStapf63 Follow My parents' generation could live off one income, so the one not working could plan parties and get togethers. Our generation is exhausted from struggling to get by and when we get home, we're too tired to go out and meet up with friends.

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